Improve alignment of its behaviour with std::unique_ptr

  - element_type typedef
  - release() method - identical to ptr() method
  - get() method to get the pointer without checking and without releasing it.
  - operator*() for dereferencing

Method name changes

  - renamed rawPtr() to get()
  - renamed rawRef() to ref(), removed unused const version.

Removed methods/operators

  - assignment from a raw pointer was deleted (was rarely used).
    Can be convenient, but uncontrolled and potentially unsafe.
    Do allow assignment from a literal nullptr though, since this
    can never leak (and also corresponds to the unique_ptr API).

Additional methods

  - clone() method: forwards to the clone() method of the underlying
    data object with argument forwarding.

  - reset(autoPtr&&) as an alternative to operator=(autoPtr&&)

STYLE: avoid implicit conversion from autoPtr to object type in many places

- existing implementation has the following:

     operator c...