ENH: add missing Hash function for List/UList (issue #966)

- there were previously no hashing mechanisms for lists so they
  would fall back to the definition for primitives and hash the
  memory location of the allocated List object.

- provide a UList::Hash<> sub-class for inheritance, and also a global
  specialization for UList<T>, List<T> such that the hash value for
  List<List<T>> cascades properly.

- provide similar function in triFace to ensure that it remains
  similar in behaviour to face.

- added SymmHash to Pair, for use when order is unimportant.

STYLE: use string::hash() more consistently

- no particular reason to use Hash<word>() which forwards to
  string::hash() anyhow