- improve handling of changes in ParaView/VTK or cmake parameters (#1693)

  * adjust internals to support recording of an unlimited number of
    configuration parameters and use file `cmp` instead of trying
    to check strings ourselves.

ENH: new wmake/scripts/wmake.cmake-args handler

- additional handling of -prefix=... as CMAKE_INSTALL_PREFIX export.

- in some contexts, can use instead of AllwmakeParseArguments