ENH: replace flex-based wmkdep with ragel-based parser (issue #784)

  This is similar to efforts (Feb 2010) but using ragel
  (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ragel) instead of the now defunct
  coco/r. The modified commit message from 2010:

ENH: add C++-based wmkdepend parser (uses ragel grammar).

- This avoids dependency on lex/flex and provides better encapsulation
  for buffer switching. As a result, the maximum number of open files
  only corresponds to the include depth.

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Note that the flex source and rules are still available, but are not
deactivate (see wmake/rules/General/transform)