ENH: improve MPI configuration possibilities

- permit SYSTEMMPI user adjustments via
      etc/config.{csh,sh}/mpi-system
  This can be a convenient place for setting up SYSTEMMPI for OpenFOAM
  without adjusting bashrc, prefs.sh ...

- add a USERMPI type. This represents any generic mpi implementation.
  The user is responsible for supplying an appropriate
  wmake/rules/General/mplibUSERMPI file and managing all settings.

  This type of setup can be useful in combination with specific build
  systems (SPACK, EASYBUILD, etc) or module systems for which the MPI
  variant is part of the installed configuration.