Rebuilding InteractionLists *FROM SCRATCH, AT EVERY REFERRED DATA
SEND* when mesh_.changing().  Expensive, as required for every force
calculation subCycle, but will make sure that the InteractionLists are
correct at all times.  Not intended for serious use, only to make the
method not wrong, to do moving/changing mesh calculations efficiently
will require an efficient maintenance and update mechanism for the
InteractionLists.  Triggers a warning.